Str8 People: Is it hard to handle opposite-sex friendships?

[Devil'sAdvocate]

Not at all.

If a girl need that DA! dick... DA! will check if girl deserve the DA! dick and DA! will based on his checking administer the dick.

[EG.]

i dont really have male friends that im really close with so cant say

but with all the dudes in my high school class there had been something, 1 was my ex, another had a crush on me, another asked for sex, another tried to hook up and kiss me,..

[DetroitSkills]

im with DA on this one, this man knows.

[shadyblogger]

I've always thought it would be almost impossible to have a super close friend of the opposite sex. Maybe just because I went almost 21 years without a girlfriend and was thirsty beyond belief, but it just doesnt seem possible to me. Sex is just too prevalent for it not to come up eventually. I've been really close friends with 3 females in my life and I developed strong feelings for all of them. One of them happens to be my girlfriend now.

This makes sense to me

[6PRDMD9]

Yeah, it is. It's also hard to handle same-sex friendships for me as well.

But nah, in all seriousness, it's not for me. I have the sex drive of a neutered cat and a desire for romantic relationships close to zero, though, so I don't know. I think my situation is a little different than most of you. Since college started I've kept relatively distant from all my friends (but I've made a LOT more than I had in high school) so none of the females I hang out with really know enough about me as a person besides being deadpan and sarcastic...and if one was physically attracted to me I'd probably call a damn psychiatrist to look after her making sure she doesn't make other bad judgement calls.

[shadyblogger]

Yeah, it is. It's also hard to handle same-sex friendships for me as well.

But nah, in all seriousness, it's not for me. I have the sex drive of a neutered cat and a desire for romantic relationships close to zero, though, so I don't know. I think my situation is a little different than most of you. Since college started I've kept relatively distant from all my friends (but I've made a LOT more than I had in high school) so none of the females I hang out with really know enough about me as a person besides being deadpan and sarcastic...and if one was physically attracted to me I'd probably call a damn psychiatrist to look after her making sure she doesn't make other bad judgement calls.

Powerful tbh

[TheBoss123]

hmmm not really


I've always had female friends, probably because I've always been into creative stuff.

Same here.

But tbh theres very few female friends I've made where there hasnt been some sort of initial sexual attraction. Theres a few of them I'd actually date as well. But as far as just maintaing the friendship I don't really have an issue.

[TheBoss123]

hmmm not really


I've always had female friends, probably because I've always been into creative stuff.

Same here.

But tbh theres very few female friends I've made where there hasnt been some sort of initial sexual attraction. Theres a few of them I'd actually date as well. But as far as just maintaing the friendship I don't really have an issue.

Pretty much.

I've always been introduced to them in some some sexual interaction. That's kind of how the world works though.

yeah seems that way, one of my male friends had a conversation with one of my female friends about this and she was not happy to find out that that initial physical attraction was why she had many of her male friends. I thought it was obvious but I guess not lol.

It doesnt matter anymore because of how close we are now, and tbh I think she forgot about it entirely. I wonder how women think in terms of opposite sex relationships.

[Raul]

My best friend is a girl. She's a lesbian, so I don't really am attracted to her, even if she's pretty.

Besides that, I agree with Menzo. Quoting him.

As a perverted, aggressive sexually driven 19 year old male, I can say with confidence that most friendships between a male and female (assuming at least one of the two are good looking) is started off of some sexual attraction.

[shadyblogger]

Shit's tough because I'm building a friendship with this girl that I'm attracted to but I can't help but think I'm moving deeper and deeper into the friend zone

[shadyblogger]

Shit's tough because I'm building a friendship with this girl that I'm attracted to but I can't help but think I'm moving deeper and deeper into the friend zone

Tell her you frequent TR!

That'll get her

[MistaVijilantee]

This thread just makes me think about how I do find most of my close female friends attractive haha - it's also because they're awesome people with good personalities but subconsciously that's undoubtedly part of the reason why I like hanging out with them even if my chances of anything ever romantically happening are slim.

[shadyblogger]

This thread just makes me think about how I do find most of my close female friends attractive haha - it's also because they're awesome people with good personalities but subconsciously that's undoubtedly part of the reason why I like hanging out with them even if my chances of anything ever romantically happening are slim.

Yeah there usually is some subconscious attraction. You don't find too many guys hanging out with a bunch of ugly girls tbh.

[Guess_Who]

Depends if there is attaction or not. It's hard. But can happen.

Bloggs , there is no such thing as friend zone, I was attracted by guys with the time that I thought I would never be attracted. Years ago I had a friend, I found him 0 attractive, but he had a great personality, and he was so smart, with the time he got me. It lasted little though.

[Kill You]

I'll admit, I get close to get laid. It's not impossible but for a lot of guys this seems to be the case. I'm hardly ever trying to be "just friends."