Cheating

[SliK]

What do you think of affairs (that last months for example) as opposed to just fucking a random. Do you think it's ok to have an emotional connection as well as a physical one with another woman while in a relationship?

[SajN]

I expect mutual respect when I go in to a relationship. No cheating. I don't respect that at all, and I hate it. So if a girl "loves" me, but is unsure of herself, afraid she might cheat on me sometime, then fuck off.

[Eedee]

Cheating is wrong.....if you are in a relationship you should only be with them....if you cheat break up first.

Then how come Islam/Quran allows men to have multiple wives?

[Eedee]

^ What the fuck is wrong with you? Back to Religion again...holy Fuck your crazy! What kind of question you asking me? Your so fucking dumb and stupid you don't see a cross on my arm???

Okay, then why were you spouting shit about Allah in the other thread? Jesus Christ, sorry...

And I was merely asking a question. I know you're religious, so I was wondering why you think that if your holy book says differently?

Okay, so you're Christian. Let me repeat my question in appropriate context:

Then how come Christianity/Bible allows multiple wives?

[SliK]

What do you think of affairs (that last months for example) as opposed to just fucking a random. Do you think it's ok to have an emotional connection as well as a physical one with another woman while in a relationship?

Basically what SajN said, which is what i've been saying in all of my previous posts.
Why be emotionally attached if you wanna bang multiple partners?
I get that it's what we call sexual attraction but I also believe that you can overcome that if you really loved the women you're emotionally attached to.

I can understand people who are not looking for anything serious and just wanna have sex and probably spending a few dates with their partner, as in it not being a one night stand.

I was talking to CrashBand. I don't want the OPINION of what a bunch of virgins would HYPOTHETICALLY do or not do. I can tell you from experience things aren't so black and white when you are in the situation I promise you. It's easy to sit back and go "Omg if I ever get a girlfriend I'll never cheat on her because I'd never throw that away" but until you are in the situation you have no business offering an opinion.

That goes for most people in this thread.

[SliK]

Omg I didn't even know that, lmao

[Alex2012]

Cheating is wrong.....if you are in a relationship you should only be with them....if you cheat break up first.

Then how come Islam/Quran allows men to have multiple wives?

WOW! Why not? That's the real question.
It's marrying, not fucking you fickin dumbass!
We all know men's urges and needs, marrying is the way of not making the person think of fornicating; cheating. Even tho this shouldn't be the main reason for marrying a second/third/forth woman.

And did you know that he must tell his first wife before anything?
You're way off limits, don't ask any questions just for the sake of argument.
Go read, don't go to anti-Islamic sites because that'd be stupid. Go to an Islamic forum and i'm sure you'll find the answers to all of your questions.

then when you want to have sex with a girl other than your wife you just have to marry her and it's not cheating, that's pretty cool.

then i guess you will have to marry eva too

[CrashBand]

Basically what SajN said, which is what i've been saying in all of my previous posts.
Why be emotionally attached if you wanna bang multiple partners?
I get that it's what we call sexual attraction but I also believe that you can overcome that if you really loved the women you're emotionally attached to.

I can understand people who are not looking for anything serious and just wanna have sex and probably spending a few dates with their partner, as in it not being a one night stand.

I was talking to CrashBand. I don't want the OPINION of what a bunch of virgins would HYPOTHETICALLY do or not do. I can tell you from experience things aren't so black and white when you are in the situation I promise you. It's easy to sit back and go "Omg if I ever get a girlfriend I'll never cheat on her because I'd never throw that away" but until you are in the situation you have no business offering an opinion.

That goes for most people in this thread.

Lol.

What do you think of affairs (that last months for example) as opposed to just fucking a random. Do you think it's ok to have an emotional connection as well as a physical one with another woman while in a relationship?

Sorry, just saw this. Umm no, not really.

My (warped) reasoning was that I will feel the same way about my girlfriend if I had or hadn't fucked the random. It didn't mean anything, gone from my memory completely. (so naturally I made a thread about it )

But an emotional connection... fuck, I don't know. It would surely impact and conflict with your current relationship. Your views?

[SliK]

I'm at work atm so I can't elaborate now (I will when I get home, or tomorrow or something) but I personally couldn't do it again. I have fucked randoms since though, so I think one time things are completey different to "affairs".

[CrashBand]

^Don't be such a petty little idiot.

[Eedee]

^go fuck ur self homo!

Nice comeback, brah!!!

[Alex2012]

WOW! Why not? That's the real question.
It's marrying, not fucking you fickin dumbass!
We all know men's urges and needs, marrying is the way of not making the person think of fornicating; cheating. Even tho this shouldn't be the main reason for marrying a second/third/forth woman.

And did you know that he must tell his first wife before anything?
You're way off limits, don't ask any questions just for the sake of argument.
Go read, don't go to anti-Islamic sites because that'd be stupid. Go to an Islamic forum and i'm sure you'll find the answers to all of your questions.

then when you want to have sex with a girl other than your wife you just have to marry her and it's not cheating, that's pretty cool.

then i guess you will have to marry eva too

It shouldn't be the reason why you wanna get married, I didn't go in depth with this subject because it's not the place to.

I was teasing like you know it

in serious way, I didn't mean to offend you or your beliefs, i don't think you're the type of guy who gets offended like that though then i tell it for the others,

i like to talk about religions, phylosophy of life, and i like that if i can add my own life experience and how i see the world and the humanity, my father was not a religious but he believed in the humanity and the best part of it and the nature because without the nature we wouldn't exist and we are a part of it, He brought me up like that and i like to have my mind opens and not to judge the others.

and the same way and not because of a religion but because i'm like that, i don't want to cheat because i woudn't feel great to do it if my boyfriend does it to me then i would feel hurted because i probably didn't satisfy him enough and if something misses in our couple then the best thing is to break.

i already was married, i did it for the bad reasons, i don't think i need to be married to be with someone, a religious wedding or administrative paper can't replace a bond of love. But i have nothing against the marriage.

^ you shouldn't have to give an example and there is no need for an example if someone wants to know why Muslims can have 5 wives they can research it or read the Quran.

reading the Quran then i couldn't even go at the end of the 3 little pigs story.