Virginity

[Alia]

^Personally, I find the idea of not finding someone that you love and trust enough to spend the rest of your life with quite sad. Maybe I'm just lucky, because I'm surrounded by examples of marriages that have withstood the test of time

Marriage is filled with compromises, but if it's worth the prize, it's worth the fight

typical female response

Okay, so maybe I'm being a bit sappy, but I just think that most people who say that they never want to settle down are under some delusion that they will never get old. The fear of becoming an old and lonely spinster consumes me.

[Sekou]

^Personally, I find the idea of not finding someone that you love and trust enough to spend the rest of your life with quite sad. Maybe I'm just lucky, because I'm surrounded by examples of marriages that have withstood the test of time

Marriage is filled with compromises, but if it's worth the prize, it's worth the fight

typical female response

Okay, so maybe I'm being a bit sappy, but I just think that most people who say that they never want to settle down are under some delusion that they will never get old. The fear of becoming an old and lonely spinster consumes me.

May I ask how old you are?

[Alia]

Okay, so maybe I'm being a bit sappy, but I just think that most people who say that they never want to settle down are under some delusion that they will never get old. The fear of becoming an old and lonely spinster consumes me.

May I ask how old you are?

20

[Sekou]

Okay, so maybe I'm being a bit sappy, but I just think that most people who say that they never want to settle down are under some delusion that they will never get old. The fear of becoming an old and lonely spinster consumes me.

May I ask how old you are?

20

I kind of agree with what you said.
But I also believe that every person eventually gets the oppurtunity to build up a family or at least settle down with a beloved partner. A lot of people chose to turn down that oppurtunity and end up lonely eventually.
But I really don't think you should be worrying about that while you're twenty.

[Alia]

I kind of agree with what you said.
But I also believe that every person eventually gets the oppurtunity to build up a family or at least settle down with a beloved partner. A lot of people chose to turn down that oppurtunity and end up lonely eventually.
But I really don't think you should be worrying about that while you're twenty.

lol, yup I agree; there's a few things that I have to accomplish in my life before I can seriously start worrying about marriage.

[VenomBlackViper]

I'd rather be "lonely" when the time comes & enjoy myself now. Fuck marriage, fuck having to compromise myself for some bitch and fuck the risk of having to give her money every month. For every happy marriage theres 5 divorces & another 4 unhappy marriages. A relationshit is one thing by why should I purposely tie myself down for ever?

[christalgurl]

I'm not huge on the idea of marriage. I think way too many people get married just to get married and not be alone. If you're going to get married, at least do it for the right reasons. Don't just get married because you're lonely and scared to die without ever getting married. People can be just as happy on their own if they'd let themselves. If you can't be happy alone, you'll never be able to be happy with someone else. With that being said, I'm a virgin. I'm not waiting on marriage. I'm just waiting to be ready for it and to enjoy myself when it happens. I don't want to be pressured or feel like I have to do anything.

[xnoxiousx]

I'd rather be "lonely" when the time comes & enjoy myself now. Fuck marriage, fuck having to compromise myself for some bitch and fuck the risk of having to give her money every month. For every happy marriage theres 5 divorces & another 4 unhappy marriages. A relationshit is one thing by why should I purposely tie myself down for ever?

I kind of agree but i rather get married than live alone and lonely. Fapping will only last so long.

[remy3x]

I'd rather be "lonely" when the time comes & enjoy myself now. Fuck marriage, fuck having to compromise myself for some bitch and fuck the risk of having to give her money every month. For every happy marriage theres 5 divorces & another 4 unhappy marriages. A relationshit is one thing by why should I purposely tie myself down for ever?

I kind of agree but i rather get married than live alone and lonely. Fapping will only last so long.

You can live with someone else without getting married. That way, there'd be less problems if you decided to break up. I can't imagine myself ever getting married or having kids. Promising to be with one person for the rest of your life is kinda scary. A marriage that's not strictly monogamous would probably be batter. And VenomBlackViper, "relationshit"? lol.

[VenomBlackViper]

By the time I get too old to pull chicks anymore I don't think i'll need to be fapping either so it's all good, i'll probably just do a shit load of drugs till I overdose.
Getting married is like locking yourself in a jail cell and leaving the key in a small area between spikes, so in order to get yourself outta the mess you put yourself in you'll have to go through great amounts of unnecessary pain.
Yes a relationSHIT thats what I refer to em as. I prefer fuck buddies now instead of wasting a couple weeks with one person and getting into some bullshit fight.

[Sla]

Don't like virgins. Would never date one. 2011, no virginity.

[xnoxiousx]

I'd rather be "lonely" when the time comes & enjoy myself now. Fuck marriage, fuck having to compromise myself for some bitch and fuck the risk of having to give her money every month. For every happy marriage theres 5 divorces & another 4 unhappy marriages. A relationshit is one thing by why should I purposely tie myself down for ever?

I kind of agree but i rather get married than live alone and lonely. Fapping will only last so long.

You can live with someone else without getting married. That way, there'd be less problems if you decided to break up. I can't imagine myself ever getting married or having kids. Promising to be with one person for the rest of your life is kinda scary. A marriage that's not strictly monogamous would probably be batter. And VenomBlackViper, "relationshit"? lol.

I might want kids though only one maybe. I think its better getting married if your having kids.

[Just Silver]

I'll be honest and say i am at a pretty old age of 19

Not because I dont want to because of my Aspergers making its very hard to communicate

[ThomasJ]

Why do people force sex so much?

Sex should be the pinnacle of a loving relationship between 2 persons, not something you'd do because all your friends are doing it or because you're scared of being teased for being a virgin.

With sex comes HUGE responsibility. I know a 15 year old dude that knocked up a 14 year old girl. That shit makes me sick.

Do it for yourself, not for your friends.

I sound old.

[Robbie G]

Why do people force sex so much?

Sex should be the pinnacle of a loving relationship between 2 persons, not something you'd do because all your friends are doing it or because you're scared of being teased for being a virgin.

With sex comes HUGE responsibility. I know a 15 year old dude that knocked up a 14 year old girl. That shit makes me sick.

Do it for yourself, not for your friends.

I sound old.

Lol, but I know what you mean. You shouldn't do it unless your mature enough to face the consequences.