Cosh wrote:life starts when the sperm hits the egg, to put it bluntly.
No it doesn't.
I realize that this is the essential point in which a baby arguably 'begins' to grow, but this is simply one crucial stage. You may as well say life begins in the ballsack.
If life is not aware of itself or feels no significant pain, there is no cruelty involved and it's not immoral. All you're doing is canceling the process a little further down the line.
An alternative to that, is to wear a condom. That of course simply stops it happening all together, but the fact you make a distinction between that and aborting 'life' at the earliest of stages shows you're inventing a moral barrier that is irrational, and emotional. Not truth.
Cosh wrote:So being responsible, in my eyes, is using protection. You have to realize though, the majority of women having abortions aren't having them because they want to keep the child from a maybe dreadful existence. Most of the time, it's selfish, and it's because they don't have time for it or they want to continue the lifestyle they currently live. If they are completely sure they couldn't give this child a quality life, there's always adoption, right?
Aborting a child because you don't want it, or have no time for it, is not selfish.
You know what's selfish? knowing that, and KEEPING the child. As you have the conscious knowledge that you do not truly want nor want to care for the child you are about to bring into existence, and yet do it regardless. Nothing could be more selfish.
It's irrelevant why the woman is aborting, the woman is a conscious human being, where as a fetus at its most early development stages, is not. You're not depriving a would-be child of existing anymore than you would be if you wore protection.
Yes there's adoption but as any adopted child will probably tell you, it's not the same. We feel a biological bond with our 'real' parents which is why adopted children often intuitively feel that something is not right even without being told.
So it's far more selfish to subject a child to an abnormal upbringing and significant, emotional difference than it is to simply abort the would-be child in the first place. Most people think of this as immoral as they're connecting the vision of an actual baby to the abortion process.
You're no more killing a child or stopping a life than you are if you decide to fuck a woman, to get her pregnant, then decide against it in a moment's thought. The only difference is the lapse in time, the stage at which you 'abort' the process.
Stabbing a baby to death as it comes out of its mother's womb is killing it. Aborting a barely developed fetus, is not.
Cosh wrote:P.S. Just because I child isn't aware of it's existence in the womb, doesn't mean it doesn't deserve the right to develop into a person who DOES realize his existence.
I see. And yet you're FOR protection?
Do you not think that a sperm that WOULD develop into a person if ejected into a female's vagina, and not blocked by a rubber protective deserves that right too? you're having your cake and eating it by making a distinction that exists only in, your, head.
Your distinction is irrational based on the idea that at only at X point are you dealing with something that can be considered human. If it's not conscious, or truly life, or human as we think of it - then it's nothing.
It's a 'would-be' child sure, but so is sperm in a man's balls. Are you against masturbation and wasting sperm on your belly? you may as well be.