Thoughts on opening up to people?

[mdemaz]

Don't trust anybody, be yourself, don't let a girl change who you are, don't listen to faggots that are on a road to the shitter, and bi-win.
That's all I can say.

[JamaicanPattlez]

Don't trust anybody, be yourself, don't let a girl change who you are, don't listen to faggots that are on a road to the shitter, and bi-win.
That's all I can say.

Listen to this. If a girl forces you to change, don't. You should always improve when you WANT to. When you're forced to, you won't like it. You were born you, and you'll hopefully die you, so why complicate it during the middle?

[mdemaz]

Don't trust anybody, be yourself, don't let a girl change who you are, don't listen to faggots that are on a road to the shitter, and bi-win.
That's all I can say.

Listen to this. If a girl forces you to change, don't. You should always improve when you WANT to. When you're forced to, you won't like it. You were born you, and you'll hopefully die you, so why complicate it during the middle?

I sorta meant to say..Don't let a girl make you WHO you are..
XD

[JamaicanPattlez]

Don't trust anybody, be yourself, don't let a girl change who you are, don't listen to faggots that are on a road to the shitter, and bi-win.
That's all I can say.

Listen to this. If a girl forces you to change, don't. You should always improve when you WANT to. When you're forced to, you won't like it. You were born you, and you'll hopefully die you, so why complicate it during the middle?

I sorta meant to say..Don't let a girl make you WHO you are..
XD

Lmao that's related to it too! Lol cause I know SO many of my friends that changed when they got girlfriends. Not even in a normal way, they just became bitch-made.

[mdemaz]

Sometimes, people want what they can't have and it's too damn bad..

[EminemBase]

It depends on what kind of a person you are.

I find it hard to make friends or relate to people now, the older I've gotten... the more different I've become from everybody around me.

I was popular in school, I'm not an unliked person or anything, I just have mood and social issues and don't feel like I am the same as other people. I feel defected.

BUT... I have like a few close friends and, I divulge every detail of my mind to them. But this isn't necessarily a choice, it's just the way I am. Which is ironic to how I am with new people which is fairly quiet and guarded, as most I presume are...

Though I let people into my thoughts pretty easily. I find it healthier to be constantly honest and have no secrets, so therefore - nobody ever has anything on me. So I'll just say openly embarrassing things about myself and my own life, sarcastically, before anybody else can. You always win then.

If you don't naturally open up to people though then you shouldn't force it. Unless you feel this is something you're being deprived of and something you would benefit from. If that's the case, I think you should study communication skills, learn how to ignore your self-esteem and ego and let information flow. If you simply think that you 'should' do because others do or to comply to some kind of social norm in your head though, fuck that.

Just do what makes you comfortable.

[J.R.]

New topic in the topic.

Someone tells you something and it's bugging you. You've gotta vent.

Question is. Do you, or do you not and is it wrong.

[J.R.]

For example. If a friend were dying, would you open up to other friends about it?

[Sam.]

For example. If a friend were dying, would you open up to other friends about it?

It would be your test of faith and nothing else. Some people don't want to gather the 5 Minute of Fame by revealing this fact. It could actually make your friends guilty if they feel sorry about your other friend if they happen to dislike him/her (and you don't know about this)

[EminemBase]

It depends on what kind of a person you are.

I find it hard to make friends or relate to people now, the older I've gotten... the more different I've become from everybody around me.

I was popular in school, I'm not an unliked person or anything, I just have mood and social issues and don't feel like I am the same as other people. I feel defected.

BUT... I have like a few close friends and, I divulge every detail of my mind to them. But this isn't necessarily a choice, it's just the way I am. Which is ironic to how I am with new people which is fairly quiet and guarded, as most I presume are...

Though I let people into my thoughts pretty easily. I find it healthier to be constantly honest and have no secrets, so therefore - nobody ever has anything on me. So I'll just say openly embarrassing things about myself and my own life, sarcastically, before anybody else can. You always win then.

If you don't naturally open up to people though then you shouldn't force it. Unless you feel this is something you're being deprived of and something you would benefit from. If that's the case, I think you should study communication skills, learn how to ignore your self-esteem and ego and let information flow. If you simply think that you 'should' do because others do or to comply to some kind of social norm in your head though, fuck that.

Just do what makes you comfortable.

We might be the same person.

Lmao. That's a deceptively... witty, meta-comment. You're getting funnier (he said to himself).

[Midnight EyeZ]

I've always said, if you want to keep your secret's secret, don't tell ANYONE!!!...Coz at some point in your life it can and WILL be used against you...

Besides I open up to everyone through my music...Not only a way to vent my stress, but also a defence mechanism...You can't diss me about something I've already openly admitted to...