SliK wrote:I look at personal experience as what shapes us, within the constraints of what our genes allow.
For example, my mother put a heavy emphasis on education and sparked my interest in things when I was young. I think, without her, I wouldn't be as intelligent (not saying I am SO smart or like SUPER intelligent or anything) or have as much of an interest in learning. However, there is no amount of teaching that can change genetics, so if I only have the potential for a 120 IQ there is no way I can get more than that.
So environment plays a part in every single person, but more so in determining how strong/weak certain traits are, not whether or not you have that trait at all.
Hence, Nature via Nurture.
Yeah I was thinking the same.
I'm the oldest of sibling in my family and both my mother and father grew up fatherless. So they really never had a father figure and I think that kind of played a role on how I grew up. My father also had a strong emphasis on education but the way he raised me was way different than my younger brothers. I was spoiled most of my childhood tbh and I had everything done for me, we didn't have much but my dad did the best he could. Anyway I think as time passed he learned to become a better father and he made my brothers work for things and they're always more ambitious and hungrier than me and I would say more successful too. I'm doing pretty well atm but what what I'm trying to say is that the way we were raised definitely had to do with experience.
I don't know if what I just posted translates well with the topic at hand, just posted what I was thinking.
But what if I were just handed shitty genetics. I don't know I feel bad now lol.