by Atone » Nov 13th, '14, 15:16
Lol, being that i'm friends with, 4 or 5 different lesbians i can pretty much explain your stupiity here.
So, if a man and another man fuck each other they are gay right? but wait, they can't "get off" without fucking a hole, OH GOD THEY ARE NOT FULLY GAY? wrong, stupid ass
the idea that 2 females needing a dildo to get off automatically merans they are not fully gay is also stupid,
a man and a man find each other attractive and have sexual relations, that is gay
2 females find each other attractive, and have sexual relations, that is gay
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now the part where me being friends with many lesbians comes in here.
needing a "fake man dick" as you say, to get off, that has nothing to do with men, them getting off is based on what they are attracted to, they can't get off with a real man dick because they do not find a man attractive and it doesn't turn them on, sexually, they are not interested in a man.
they choose a female, weather they use a dildo or strap on, or not, doesn't matter, the fact is, they are sexually aroused by another female, turned on by the female body image, but thats just the sexual side of it, it's not just a sexual thing to be gay, there is an emotional side to it as well, i will explain.
2 of my best friends are lesbian and have been dating for awhile, i've only been around them maybe once when they got sexual with each other (other than kissing) but, emotionally is different, one of them i have known sice she was 15, i've never seen her get emotional over any guy friend of hers, other than a few messages to me in regards to how much i mean to her and how much i've helped her in life, other than me she's only had 2 other straight guy friends, 1 of them, me and her both ended up erasing from our lives, the other, idk what happened to him, he got weird on her i guess cuz he wanted to be with her, and she quickly removed him from her life, why? cuz she was not emotionally attatched to a male, thats how you can tell if somebody is gay or not, it's not just a sexual thing, but it involves emotional thoughts as well.
just like me, being a straight guy, i could never be emotionally driven or emotionally attatched to another male, although in my case, i really don't get attatched to anybody, i've found it pretty easy to block alot of people out of my life at any given moment with no 2nd chance for them, the few friends i do have are people i truly trust, but, thats a totally different topic.
Fact is, your making it seem as if being gay is something that is purely sexually driven, and thats where you are very wrong, it's not the tool that is being used, it's who you are emotionally attatched to.